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You are special. Remember that. It's not always clear for those of us with BPD. It's obvious to those who love us.


David Gale

Graham, I don't believe in cannot. Everything is within you if you want it to be.

I am seriously thinking about moving abroad and when I mentioned it to some of the family they said it was too late and I'd be silly to do so. Not so, as soon as I get on my feet again after my op I shall be looking in to it. Yes it scares me a bit because its a big step but its within me to do it as it is within you to shape the path you want to take.

I agree get rid of all the self help books I never thought they were any good. We all know what is good for us its just sometimes our thoughts become clouded and we think irrationally at times.

I've been where you are now, I used to think no one understood what I was going through and unbeknown to the family I tried to take the ultimate way out. I'm glad I failed. It took a long time to get through it and it wasn't easy but as soon as I confided in people I was able to deal with things in a more rational manner.

Share your thoughts mate with someone anyone, no one will be judgemental. Never run away with the idea you are either abnormal or alone, you are neither.

I think you have had some bad advice down the line and I agree again its time to clear the decks and get back to basics. Some tough decisions will need to be made and it is a question of whether you are strong enough to make them. I belive you are.

I'm proud to be able to call you my nephew and you have been a credit to your father. Ask yourself what he would want you to do and I think you know the answer to that.

I'm always here for you, call any time or come and have a coffee.

David Gale
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I have been in my relationship with my boyfriend for two years now, and I can't really explain what he does that makes me so angry that I yell at him all the time. Some of the people that have rode in who are dating or married people with borderline personality disorder describe their lives is a living hell, but I feel like my boyfriend has ruined my life. I deserve to be happy, and all my friends have gotten engaged and I had to constantly yell at him and tell him that he's wasting my time to get him to buy me an engagement ring. Now it just seems like one stress after another, he doesn't respect the fact that I want a big wedding and he embarrasses me by not having a good enough job. What makes me think I have borderline personality disorder is even though he makes me so angry all the time I'm constantly worried about him doing something stupid like leaving me in ruining this relationship that I have invested two years at.


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